That's the age....

Last friday, my mom went Genting Highlight with pop for some association gathering leaving 3Js to my bro and sil. But before she left, she requested me to sent BJ and MJ to tution center after school. Helper saw that sil was on leave that friday, hence she asked her to fetch them instead. But she returned with "Huh, noone tell me that i need to fetch them... i'm not free, dont want to fetch.. ask them take bus themselves."

BJ came to me and said she needs to stay back for extra classes and not able to go tution. I have been thru that stage, immediately i smelled something not right and with MJ there, "gu gu, i think jiejie bluf you". So i requested BJ bring me to see her teacher to get the confirmation. When BJ starts to tell me things, i more i want to see her teacher.

BJ: "ok... but gugu you want to come into the school will be very mafan, you need to go thru the front gate to get the pass"..
ME:"nevermind, then we just go thru the front gate."
BJ:"i lazy to walk"
ME: "nevermind, gugu drive over, dont need to walk"
BJ:"But teacher only comes in at 130pm"
ME:"nevermind, then we will wait for the teacher"
In the car, the story started to change again,
ME:"So, where will the teacher be?"
BJ:"In the library"
ME:" What? giving extra classes in the library?"
BJ:"no, actually is teacher in charge of the library asked me to stay over to learn how to use the new machine"

When meet up the teacher... as expected.. no such thing.. and BJ was trying her best to explain to me while i remains silent, I didnt scold her, i didnt lecture her.. I brought them for lunch and sent them to tution.

This is the age where they want to see the world, hang around with friends after school. But as a gugu, what can i do.. or what should i do... I went thru her stage, afterschool is either tution or go home.. is very boring.. weekend, parents always not avaliable to bring us out. So i started to hang outside after school refused to go home since i'm primary 4. But this is not i would like my niece or nephew to go thought. I keep telling myself, i need to respect her... the very least no screaming and shouting at her especially infront of her teacher and friends. But i need to meet the teachers as i want to let her know, dont lie to me... i can check with your teacher if i know something is up in your selves.

I think as a gugu, this is the most i can do. Over the weekend, i had tried to talk to her more.. ask her more about her friends.. interesting things she see etc.. what she is interested.. Need to build a closer bond and think of more activates to filled their life up.. Will bring them out more often over the weekend.

Dear reader, what else can i do.. or what else should i do??? any recomendation?