A home or a house?

After work, are you returning to a home or a house?

Are you providing a home or a house to your children?

Many youngsters had turned to friends and join the gangs when they don't feel any love from the family esp the parents. After school/work, they returned to a house and not a home. When I says love, this is not nagging from mommies, they don't feel nagging is love. To them, you nagged at them because You think they don't do well.. But why? What's the root cause of why they don't well?? Nagging doesn't resolve the cause and may cause back fire. In the olden days, Father is the one who provide house and mommy is the one who provide home. But these days, it seem that both parents are providing a house... and MAID is providing home. what a joke right?

Teaching teenagers are really a challenge. Had been thinking alot these days as i heard complaints from teachers that my niece and nephew telling lies, skipping classes when grandma not in town. Called their mom, she refused to pick up calls. Called their dad, went into Malaysia. In the past, the previous maid will call and call and check on those kids when my mom is not around. but now with new maid... she dont dare to do such things...

As a gugu, what can I do? How to teach them?


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