Marriage is definitely not belongs to 2 person, it's 2 families. when he doesn't respect and support what my family is. Can this relationship continue?
I have always thought I managed my time very well. Monday to Friday I will clear my HP work as much and as fast as I could. I will bring jx to school, to treatment, to doc follows up and therapies if any. Sat I spend my morning with my hus and jx (have a breakfast, go to the farm) before I went in to pop company to clear those impt HR stuff and payroll. Sunday and public holiday I will make sure I spent my time with jx. When hus not around, then will spend time with my family. But not sure what's he not happy abt.
Today he turned my family upside down. He words had hurt my dad, mom , the 3kids and me to the max. I run away from home as I don't wish to flight infront of my family and make them worried. I have no face to face anyone of them. I'm ashamed of what he did. I called his Sis to go over my mom place to bring him away before more ppl is hurt by his words from his temper. Can't wait for tmr to come and he will be far far away from us and we can breath.
Had some time by myself to sort things out. But I still can't figure out why he want to do this to hurt me.. Don't he love me? Don't he understand why I want to do this?? Upset and disappointed to the max.
Were those things that he said to your family regarding the extra time you have to spend to settle your dad's company? Is it that he hope you can spend more time with him and jx? Probably, on one hand he can't bring himself to see you tired but doesn't know how to say it.
ReplyDeleteyes, it all about spending extra time to settle stuff for my dad co. i asked him why he did it and i can do to avoid this problem to happen again? he says "You dont get involved" how is possible? if you see your dad's having problem in hiring will you do it to him.. personally is a no for me.
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