Happy occasion ???

All happy occasion will always turned up as a disaster on me due to my hus and janelle since 4 years ago... And more since 2 years ago

Just this year, 2011:

Because of a new year countdown, janelle refused to sleep till 2am.. Hus throw his temper and says no more countdown for her..

Because of my brother wedding, who to take care of janelle.. I have planned month ago and informed hus, and also requested mil to take leave off her work to take care of janelle in the morning. But only the day before the big day, hus turn over everything... Questioning me the plans. Had a quarreled with him over this... Last min then says, how u want me to explain to mil, my parents.

Even the tea ceremony, he says he dont understand just a min things and why he need to be around for hours. He even want me to call him only when the ceremony started, then he came over from home. And get EVERYONE to wait for him..of cos this also get us into argument

The actual day itself also had a big flight. Last min assignment from my mom which cause us not able to make it for my bro Solemnization... And janelle had a fit after a month of fit free... And janelle woke up in the mid of night crying... All these had triggered his anger again.

If time can go back to 4 years ago, I will not choose marriage. Why find a find a person to spoilt all happy occasion that's going to happen? Since I chosen this road myself, hus also is chosen by myself and for janelle, I will be strong to continue this journey.



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