21st January 2010, Thursday
Yesterday, when i went to the common toliet, i saw an ELLE make up bag in a plastic bag that has my maid belongings and recalled that's my sis. I called sis to confirm before i confront my maid.
In the evening, i took jx for tuina and took this chance without my mil around and asked my maid if she did take anything from my mama house, from my mom, my sis, my sil etc... she keep saying no... and i told her i want to check her bag when we returned home.. she just replied OK, you check lo.
Once i reached home, i searched her bag.. i took out the makeup bag.. of cos, initially she denied then in the end she told me yes she took and that's the only one thing she took... of cos, i listed down a few more items, and one by one she says she "BORROW".. pianz... but only one thing that she didnt admit was cash... she still denied that she took my mil money..
She had break my trust.. after a good scolding from me, i passed her a piece of paper and declare every single items she has to me now; include how many bra, how many underwear, how much cash etc.. i told her that i will do spot check anytime i want according to the list.. any items from anyone have to declare... and i leave her in her room to listdown all items while i go and clear up jx and make her to bed..
THEN, my mil went in to scold her... yes, she continued nag nag nag... and "I WANT TO GO BACK TO AGENCY" came out from my maid to MIL..
at this point of time, i'm busy at work and renovation had already make my head big.. now i had to go without a maid.. omg.. i dont know how am i going to cope.. with MIL.. worst.
Got maid also a problem... maidless also another problem... Oh dear, how come my problem is endless
: Perhaps its wise to let her just leave, now that she has showed hands, by retaining her, you never know what she can do to baby as revenge. So send away asap might be best. How about taking a transfer maid? Not all are rejected maids from other households. My friend has a great transfer maid. ELse, maybe send to your mum's place. CHeer up, will have solution!
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