05th Janurany 2010, Tuesday
Sunday, hus sil called and asked me not to move out as mil no more angry.. my reply was simple "i dont want to wait till she use broom to chase us away".. so we are very firmed that we are moving out.
Yesterday, ahboy's mama dropped by, and my mil as usual complaint to her.. so when we are in the living room, ahboy's mama asked me about our punngol flat. "decided to move out ah" and in front of her and my mil, i told them "yes, we are moving out.. and will be before chinese new year... everything had lockdown and now is WIP." my mil reply "why need to rush?" i keep quiet and play with janelle.. after janelle lunch, bring her into the room to change her clothes while they are outside in the living continue to says bad about us.. when i went out to take something, my mil immediately keep quiet.. haiz... overheard them saying that it is all our fault.. etc etc.. but who cares.. mil was telling ahboy mama how "wei da" she is to cook for us, to take care of janelle.. etc..
then yesterday night, when i was playing with janelle, my mil goes again, giving her comments again.. you have to do this.. not that... i let janelle stands on her own, she insist to carried janelle over and let janelle lie on her while standing... haiz.. i'm telling myself, hate this monent, i want to move out.. cant wait to move out...
looking back, for the past 2 weeks, indeed without my mil, janelle had bigger improvement. but definately, mummy had gives more training time to her too.. think moving forward, will need to be more forcus.. as i need to take care of janelle meals, our meals, maid and janelle.. also need to work.. can i cope??
maybe starting u can have meal catering first or maybe employ those part time maid to do housework. Do 1 thing at a time..
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