07 December 2009, Monday
Dont know what happened to my MIL... Everthing we do is wrong.. everything we do she will nag and nag... Only things she do she right... what she knows taking care of kids are only shit, eat and sleep. When her play time, she put janelle on the floor and she watched TV.
Maid wanted to play with janelle, teach her standing up... kanna my MIL scolded..
Maid wanted to let her seat on the rented toys.. kanna my MIL scolded..
Maid brought janelle into my study room and play toys.. kanna my MIL scolded..
Maid brought janelle into my bedroom, kanna my MIL scolded
When Janelle ah ah ah for nothing, MIL outside shout "Give su su, give su su" (susu means milk in malay)
She had never give a second thoughts on what time is her meal time, what time is her play time.. to her, ah ah ah means milk/sleep.. haiz
I wanted to take some time off my work, so i went and play with Janelle... I let janelle plays on her bed and let her reached out with toys far away... at times she will fall and roll over, but on the bed, no pain... at first we played very happy, and tried putting the toys further and further away.. and when she out of reach, she starts to cry for help... i was there encouraging janelle to reach out. my maid kanna scolded by MIL again as maid was with me in the room.. and she went shouting to bring janelle outside to her in malay to my maid... and she ignored cos i was in the room.. Janelle was there still crying for help (no tears, just ah ah ah) MIL run to the room and scolded both maid and myself for let janelle inside.. pianz, i so angry and shouted back, "You have no idea what happened and you keep scolding. I am trying to let her reached out for her own toys... she cant reached that's why she cried.." she walked away and scolded my maid for letting janelle in the room and ask her to bring janelle out... away from me..
I'm very angry... but dont want to quarrel with her.. i let her handled with janelle and i went back to work.. then she scolded janelle when she was there ah ah and want my MIl to bring toys to her... 15 min later, i heard another scolding from her to janelle, i went out and carry janelle away from her without saying a single word and back into our room with the door closed and locked.
ANGRY ANGRY ANGRY
All thanks to hus... after he knew what had happened, he went to talk to his mom.. not sure what they talked.. but from then onwards MIL totally ignored me and she leave house early in the morning leaving the maid and janelle at home..
ReplyDeleteNot sure if is a good or bad..
Good: Peace
Bad: our relationship had turned out very bad now.
Sometime i think remain silent would be a better choice. would affected their relationship (son and mother) too..
MIL returned.. and guess what.. she came into my room and tell me she is not feeling well, she is going to see doctor now..
ReplyDeleteShe feels the same as last time when she throw temper with hus.. stomachache, muscle pulling, etc etc... and this can goes on for a month due to virus infection in her vein...
pianz.. what does that means??
我把她气病了？？