Final Decision

01 Decemeber 2009, Tuesday

Final Decision: We are NOT moving out...

Very upset and disappointed... waited for nearly 4 years... but for Janelle, we decided not to move out. Will continue to stay in Yishun with my mil and rent out punggol flat if possible.

In 2010, will let Janelle attend special school (Rainbow) in Yishun for EIPIC, a more intents physio therapy and classes for slow development child. Once she reached her age milestone, i will put her to the childcare nearby to my bil's place so that i can return to work force. Wanted to put her to CC (kinderland) near my mama's place, but the school dont want to accept janelle and there are no more nearby CC around my mom's place. So have no choice, i need to source somewhere near to my mil so easy for mil and maid to fetch jx, and this area will have more options. It is not easy to find a CC for Janelle.. many schools had rejected my application after telling them Janelle's condition and need to give her medication on time. While many of them just tell me Janelle is not ready for CC. Target to put Janelle to school at the age of 2.. So stay in yishun will be more convenience.

Further more, hus afraid if anything happened and i cant handle, especially when he is out of town. In Yishun, at the very least his mom is around, bil and sil is nearby (less than 5 min drive).

3rd, my job is not stable as from now onwards.. If i lost this job, i believe not likely i cant find one that i can work from home. So most likely by then i will be a stay at home mom till Janelle is ready to go for Childcare. So hus hope to have the rental income to cover up Janelle's medical bills and have more saving to prepare for the worst.

Guess i have no choice, but to stay put with all my mil's nags.. as i dont have any better plans for the above... Wish me LUCK..