wean off Janelle bad habits (part 3)

Day 1: Janelle manage to fall asleep on her own after abt 15 min of cries. took janelle out for ah ma birthday dinner, so she got no choice but to fall asleep without yaoyao in the night. When we reached home, it was about 11pm, i changed her when she is drowsy.. guess she is just too tired, so no crying, once down she also knock it down in the night.

Day 2: was very bad, she screamed and shouted till she lost her voice. but still able to fall asleep after the cries

Day 3: ok for morning nap. in the afternoon i need to go out for a few hours, so i get my mil to take care of janelle. it was alright in the late morning nap.. she managed to catch a 1.5hrs of sleep... but the late afternoon nap was very bad, she screamed and shouted, i was in the room pumping... my mil cannot tahan and keep saying "i dont know how to take care of you without sarong, i dont know how to take care of you without sarong".. haiz..  ask me to use sarong.. i ignore and let her scream... but after 15 min, she still screaming and cry till she likes having breathing difficulty.. i throw in the flag, and put her to yao yao... immediately into the yao yao.. she fall asleep... the same thing happened to at my mama's place... 

I give up... sleep yao yao... sleep yao yao lo.. no choice.. i have allowed it to start, very cruel to stop her now... now, just dont need to plan to bring her out... haiz. i'm useless man.

noone supported my idea to wean off her from yao yao... kogan was there up to you la.. my mil and mama says let her sleep yao yao la.. my aunt says this weather, sleep yao yao better... started alr dont be cruel to take it away from her... am i that cruel?? i also heart pain to see her cry.. but it is about her own good.. if she can fall alseep by herself, wouldnt it be more easy for everyone?? anyway.. i give up... will try to reduce the usage lo. now hoping that she would refuse to sleep in yao yao soon...