baby pillow

last night, during my pumping session, was reading msapple's blog, her girl flipped in the middle of night one day. the first thing that come to my mind is that is very dangerous. if there is a pillow then the baby might suffocated. i went online n search, then realised that baby below 2 years old dont need a pillow. no good for their neck development and might cot death. omg.. i had been letting janelle sleeping on her granny made pillow since 1 month old. i faster removed it.

omg.. how can i be so careless n listen to my mil. seeing my mil taking care of bb, she had used all the wrong methods. baby cries give milk, if baby dont drink, wasted. baby awake, she carry her, bring her out walk walk... during the weekend, i have to spent time to correct janelle.. weekday mil mess up again.. how? is infant care better?