Friday, June 29, 2012

Are you one of them?

Husband sent me this link and asked if it sounded that someone we know:
http://sg.finance.yahoo.com/news/why-most-singaporeans-debt-065403829--sector.html

An example of a typical Singaporean couple

Take for example a Singaporean couple who falls in love and decide to settle down. The man is in his thirties and woman in her twenties. They have a combined income of about $8,000. The man buys a proposal ring that costs $7,000 (Larry’s brand as girlfriend likes it). The couple also buy a pair of engagement rings that costs $6,000 (Cartier due to peer pressure). The wedding photo package costs $6,000, wedding dinner costs $7,000, honeymoon to Korea $3,000. They then decide to apply for a DBSS flat after countless tries with HDB’s BTO without success and have to cough up $350,000 (by taking up an HDB loan and wiping out their CPF and savings). They then spend $20,000 on minor renovation and furniture.
The man decides to upgrade his car as he could not resist the latest continental car design and coughs up $100,000 (by taking a car loan). The man likes to collect watches, saw the latest Rolex and could not resist it. He has no cash but buys it for $12,000 with an interest free 24 month installment since it is so cheap per month.

Then the man tells himself that if he loses his job, he is finished. He is stuck in a rat race and saves on food, entertainment and transport cost. He does not drive his continental car to areas with ERP and instead takes the MRT there. The wife is in the finance industry, and with many banks doing cost cutting, she is very concerned now as she realizes she has nothing much to do during office hours.

The above is a real life story.

The only way the couple could afford all that is if they belong to the high earners group, if they have financial assistance from their parents or if they are born rich. Unfortunately, they are not. In the end, their family, has to donate part of their salary or retirement saving to clear off their debt for luxurious lifestyle.

We have not even talked about Singaporeans with lower earnings.

How Singaporeans get themselves in debt

Most Singaporeans will be in debt if they do the following:
1) Earn less than what they spend
2) Have no savings
3) Lose their jobs
4) Stay in a company for too long without promotion and their company pay them pathetic bonuses
5) Spend on liabilities
6) Do not delay gratification
7) Marries somebody that likes Cartier or Larry’s
8 ) Do not invest


To avoid racking up debt and getting stuck in the rat race, don’t do any of the above!

Monday, June 25, 2012

Celebrating Father's day + SJ 6th birthday

This year Oh's family celebrated father's day together with SJ 6th birthday with stay caution at Sentosa Beaufort Hotel. After my alpha's course, i went over to vivo to meet my family for dinner @ no sighboard seafood and was on my treat which made me $600 poorer.


Yummy and expensive crab

Me & Sis...
Guess it's time for me to do something to my hair and take some rest .. I looked horrible

Family members on the dinner. 2 bros were away at work


happy father's day

This is how they heat up the crab when there is no microwave.
*hot running water

 Carmwhoring while waiting to warm up the crab

Early morning, we celebrated SJ's 6th birthday in the hotel room before we check out


yesh! we made it

SJ requested to Underwater World Singapore and here we go

My mom so excited to feed the fishes.
Was quite surprised that my mom wants to do it, usually she is the one who fear of everything..


And Janelle's turn to feed the fishes.. the small fishes

But the fishes dont like her fingers, all the fishes went to the one that's on the left


My new helper with Janelle

managed to catch the pink dolpin showtime

She enjoyed it

And we came home with a new toy "Ms Pink Dolphin"

Looking forward for more family outing...

Friday, June 22, 2012

Sob sob

Mummy: "did papa beat janelle when put fingers in the mouth?"

Janelle: she quietly let her tears flow down and n her mouth



I think she can be an actress.

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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

A day of good hus and daddy

Today, hus woke me up in the morning and asked me to get change for aus coffee at our usual coffee house after sending janelle to school.

Me working




and he study for his coming tests




Afternoon, while i'm having meeting, he had snack with janelle and taught her writing




And brought janelle for a long walk at Punggol waterway in the evening.




Complained my head had been spinning since morning, he specially went to wet market and got a black chicken and pack herbs to brew duangui soup specially for me :)




And he put janelle to bed tonight.

Thanks God.. #im so very blessed.#
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God Answered

Yesterday after i blogged about how horrible i had been through last week... God answered me with Joseph Prince's daily devotional.

I don't always read Joseph Prince's daily devotional, by chance yesterday late afternoon when I was in a boring meeting, i clicked on the iphone NCC's icon and his message comes to me:
"The closer and closer you get to "the truth" and "God," and the stronger you get, the more vicious "satan" gets in trying to get you and wants to destroy you"

Sounds silly and funny and coincidental but I think it's Satan trying to turn me away from God.

But....I know I'm doing the right thing by following God. I choose to believe in Him with no doubt. His work is in progress as we are seeing improvement in Janelle and soon we will see the result. God is never late.

Monday, June 18, 2012

Horrible week I had


Last Tuesday, Janelle was down with cough and flu... With 2 days of durians and not enough rest in the night due to janelle's cough, i'm also down with very bad soar throat, ulcers and flu. Doctor says i'm over heaty, this reminds me that i'm no longer young.. can eat and do things like in the past :(



Having a weak me to work and take care of a cranky child at the same time, it is really a challenge for me. This new maid is good in cleaning, but not taking care of children. I need to remind her it's milk time, it's snack time, it's shower time... she cant put Janelle to bed too.. argh.. so basically this maid is a house cleaner.When Janelle not in school, she can takes the whole day in cleaning and for days..  My mom was out of town, my mil MIA. cant even get her thru her phones.. Times when i have noone to depends on. So, dragging myself each day to take care of Janelle and rushing for dateline everyday. When i really cant take it, i have no choice but to take 2 days of sick leave, to rest... but you know having a sick child, i can only rest with her and active with her... so my day and night is basically messed up.. Lucky hus is in town, he helped me to put janelle to bed every night and wakes up in the night to check on Janelle.

Saturday, it's a Oh's family stay-caution at Sentosa to celebrate Fathers' Day and SJ's Birthday. Hus asked me what's my plan in the morning, and he gave me words like "I just want to have a simple days with my sweeties having enough rest and recovered from the sickness". With this, i dont dare to bring Janelle over to sentosa.. So, dropped the idea of staying overnight in Sentosa and join them for the underwater world on Sunday.

Shopped for one hour to buy 2 gifts for SJ.. One from ah gong and one from me..



Glad she love the present I got for her




The afternoon, I have alpha classes.. when half way of the class, hub smsed me and told me Janelle had an attack and she bites her own lip.. My heart skipped as this had never happened before and was so worried about her, cant really focus. Checked on her after the class, and she was ok but  had 4 ulcers on her lower lip. :(
her poor lower lip




After the alpha, i joined my family for dinner and leaving Janelle with my hus.. At 10pm, hus smsed me again and said Janelle had another attack, my heart sink, a day twice is not common. Rushed back and both are sleeping well.

Sunday morning, i was in a dilemma if to bring janelle out for underwater world, as it will be a full day and she might not have time for her afternoon nap. Was thinking thinking... suddenly i just says let's go without my hus as he wants to have his day off for study for his exam... was glad that we made it. Janelle enjoyed herself in the hotel room, running around checking here and and there... She enjoyed the underwater world.

In the evening, went over to bil's place for dinner and hus date me out to do some shopping and have something cold... when we are getting tmr breakfast, MIL called and says Janelle is having fever.. Goodness me... my mind is in a complete lost. We rushed home to check on Janelle and thanks god it's a false alarm. It's a hot day yesterday, and of cos she will be feeling hot and sweat.. MIL keep chasing us to go home and let Janelle rest.

hus wanted to get this old man chair, didn't managed to stop him on time..




What a week....


Thursday, June 14, 2012

Mobile Bill

Had been paying giro for my mobile bill hence didn't really take note of the details of what's I'm paying. Last year my bill was abt 60+ but this year onwards it had been at 80+. Thinking its because of my outgoing call which I need to dial in using my mobile phone for meetings for hours while waiting for Janelle. So didn't take it to heart.



But this month, cos janelle HFMD, and less meeting on the road, the bill still as high.. Hmmm.. Finally this morning spend some minutes to study the bill, then realized that i've paying on added-value service voice mail and auto roam without knowing. Called and checked, then realized that the added value service is activated when I recontract my plans in last oct due to free for FIRST 3 MONTHS. And I have been paying it since feb without noticed it till now. Goodness me, $15 monthly.




Look at the fine print...

If you are like me, without having a detailed look at your bill and let giro do the work monthly. I reckon you spent a few minutes look at your bill to ensure you are paying what you are using. Be more careful on those so-call value added services. This is to add value to their revenue.

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