Grandmas

The love from grandmas are greater than a mother can gave. They not only need to bring up their children but also their children's children. Looking at my mom, she had to sacrifice her tai-tai lifestyle aka yum cha, shopping, visiting salon at anytime she wants, to look after the grandchildren. But sad to says, my mom only take care of brothers' children.. she refused and rejected mine cos she says my mother in law still around.

My neighbours and colleagues who mother and mother-in-law travelling down to their house every morning and stay over the daytime and take care of their children till my neighbours returned from work. That kind of family support is great isnt it? at the very least, mommy can get out and do what they wants to do to have sanity mindset with a peace of mind that their children are in good hand who loves their children as they do.

In our time, how many of us are brought up by our grandma and they are doing very well. definitely not me, as my mom is a stay at home mom since the birth of my brother... I salute to full time mom... my girl can drive me to nuts at a lot of times. :X

so, this is to act as a reminded to me that i need to appreciate my mom and mom in law better although they didnt take care of janelle for me, but when i need help.. they will always be the one who supported me through.